“Grip, grin and graze” is a phrase that I coined to describe your average, run of the mill networking event. We’ve all been to them through chambers, associations, fraternities, sororities, after hours events, open houses, ribbon cuttings, welcome events from business organizations to religious congregations.
Along with the “grip,grin and graze” action, comes the standard question of “who are you and what do you do”? Wouldn’t it just beat all that anytime most are asked that question - the answer is “I’m a sales rep with ABC”; or “I’m an attorney”; or “I’m an operations manager”; or “I’m an accountant”.
That standard operating procedure is to answer any question of “what we do” with the title that we’ve been given or the one we use. It seems even natural to answer the question that way.
Yet, it’s those “heavy weight titles” that box us in to what each person’s past experience is with that title. For example, if you had a bad experience with an accountant, and I meet you for the first time and I say I’m an accountant - all of the sudden I “own” the baggage that the last person left with you.
Those titles are “heavy weight” because of the baggage of personal experience that are associated with them. Why would you weight yourself down as you’re working on making great connections and wonderful first impressions?
Remove the dead weight of the past and refuse to let someone else’s definition of you – define you!
Here’s a better approach:
*What is an attribute that is so uniquely you? What are you known for? What are the words people use when they describe you? What do people say when they introduce you? Whatever they say are you strongest, most visible brand attributes.
*Describe yourself with those brand attributes. For example, when people would first introduce me that would say “she’s so well connected – there isn’t anyone she doesn’t know”. Others would say, she is the “poster child of networking”. Eventually, I picked up the tag “Champion of Connections” and it has stuck! Now, I’m described as the Champion of Connections Coach. What are the words that describe you so that you can drop those heavy weight titles and use your strengths as what defines you.
*Remove those titles from your business card. They only work against you. Of course, your name needs to be the most prominent item on your business card. Then, next would be the name of your company or organization. The next, will be your strength(s).
*On your resume, include (instead of your objective) your unique selling proposition or your unique promise of value. This is one sentence and can be placed directly under your address and phone number.
Drop that heavy weight title and use your strengths to become MORE than just a commodity!
People Are The Brand –
Coach Maria Elena Duron AKA The Champion of Connections Coach
Buzz To Bucks: Personal Brand Coaching, Marketing, Leadership, Career & Image Management
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